What to expect when dating a german man
German women, though, have become conditioned to a much more subtle style of coquetry.Interest is indicated by way of a studied, concentrated look on the part of the man -- a gaze which may, but often doesn't, include a smile.For, as it turns out, every girl I know in this city has suffered the same disinterest. After all, my standards are based on the charming yet mostly hopeless British / Irish culture, where flirting mostly consists of clumsily sidling up to a girl at the bar and stuttering something incomprehensible, or later on, perhaps, drunkenly lunging at her on the dance floor.Fiona*, who’s been living here for 2 years, wasn’t at all surprised when I suggested that it was difficult to get to know men in Berlin: “Oh absolutely, you have to be really pushy here – German men never make the first move.” And Carola told me that in all her life, she had never once been chatted up by a German man: she is a native Berliner. My flirtatious encounters to date have been mostly unmemorable and rarely romantic.Photo: Chris Zielecki Even the hairiest German men with the worst sunburns and the biggest beer bellies love their teeny-tiny Speedos.They wear them at the beach, with shoes and socks at the resorts, and, if they’re feeling fancy, with t-shirts while lounging at the pool. What Americans call bread is an abomination to them. And for those days when your digestive system is a little…let’s say, plugged up, you know from your mother-in-law that sauerkraut is the cure for all stomach ailments.Bottom line: If you want a relationship with a German dude, be prepared to do the heavy lifting yourself.
And the calculus is simple: If she doesn't know you're interested, your chances are nada -- if she can't ignore your come-ons, at least she's got to make a decision.
Which is disappointing, because they are really adorable. According to folklore, good kids get their stockings filled.
Bad kids get a bag of ashes and a beating from good old Saint Nick. Once you marry a German, the holiday season will never be the same again.
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You know that German men are, shall we say, a bit muted when it comes to expressing their feelings. ” You’ve learned that Germans can’t stand the American habit of flippantly suggesting get-togethers they never intend to follow through with.